Engagement Rings are Luxuries, Not Rights

There are so many designs of engagement rings that a guy could become seriously overwhelmed when venturing to a jewelry store by himself to purchase this epic piece of jewelry. He may feel a little uneasy knowing that she will have to look at this ring every single day of her life. If he messes it up, then it may breed feelings of resentment over the years. There are a few ways to take some of this pressure off of you.

There’s a slight problem in getting your lady's input on an engagement ring if you want the proposal to be a complete surprise. She can always drop hints about the kind of styles she prefers in diamond engagement rings, but without her picking out the style and design herself, you are always running a big risk. This is probably the most important piece of jewelry she will ever wear in her entire life. It marks the beginning of your marriage and it will also be passed down to your children and their children. If you would like the proposal to remain a surprise, but still want her to have some input in the engagement ring, then maybe you should look into purchasing a loose diamond and letting her design it after you ask her to marry you. She will still be surprised at the spontaneity of your question, but will still have the pleasure of designing this ring herself. Many men are leaning toward this process instead of going out on a limb and choosing the engagement ring themselves.